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Strabo's avatar

"the constant inventory of your privilege, the performance of allyship, the sense that you are always falling short of being good enough. The throughline is that you’re never done. There’s always another way you’ve failed."

Adding to the conversation this quote from (leftist) filmmaker and film critic Fred Camper from his essay Our Flattening Culture (wich I recomend):

"Encouraging everyone to enjoy the validity of their own existence has been a giant, if nowhere near completed, step forward. But steps can step too far, as is the case when our senses of our identities are located less in the facts of our origins, what we have accomplished in life, and what we hope to accomplish in the future, but rather in what we are feeling about ourselves at this very moment. We are encouraged to conceive of ourselves as natural, beautiful, and self-validating, but also not subject to self-questionings, criticisms, or needs to change. Should not celebrating who we are go alongside asking what we can become?"

I feel like the lack of self-reflection Camper talks about is tied to how someone might never feel like they're never good enough, wich I think it's also tied with the desire to not make any decisions wich is visible in some depressed people (and I speak from experience). Reviewing your allyship, checking your priveledge etc... only makes you check some very specific boxes in your life, and while it can lead to some unconfortable truths, you also sorta know what to expect and what you should do.

And therefore you never actually change or grow, you merely update yourself so your life "reflects" your current values, like a robot.

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A couple of points:

- Skin lightening products have been common in India for decades. They were all over Hindi TV in the early 00s. This is partly aligned to class identities. If you work in the fields then you are darker and therefore lower class. Very similar to pre-industrial Europe and the status symbol of pale skin. Race comparisons also probably play a role (both North India vs South India as well as Indian vs European)

- The logic of Looksmaxxing is ultimately post human. The same destination as cosmetic surgery, extreme dieting, steroids, etc. The only way out of the flesh is through.

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