What is Default Wisdom?
An advice column for the confused.
Once upon a time, this was a curated list of events around the Bay Area.
Now I give advice on… well, pretty much everything. People usually ask me about dating—I don’t know when or how that became my niche, but it seems to be the thing people care about most. You can ask me about whatever you want, though.
Sometimes I post essays about things that intere…