I’ve been traveling and away from my computer, so while I get my bearings again, I’m resurfacing one of my most popular posts of all time, from back when I wrote dating advice (remember the advice column era?). If you’re new here, this is a good intro to the kind of thing that built this audience in the first place. And if you’ve been reading for a whil…
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