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Optimization vs. Optionality in Dating

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Katherine Dee
Feb 19, 2021
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1940s 1950s FAMILY WATCHING TELEVISION IN LIVING ROOM (Photo by H. Armstrong Roberts/ClassicStock/Getty Images)

I wrote this after having a rather frank conversation with a close friend. He encouraged me to share our conversation here, and I said, what the hell—why not?

There’s an idiom I keep seeing in different manifestations on Twitter. It’s always so…

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