#38: Nerd sexuality is repulsive.
An open letter to everyone fixated on polyamory.
Like feminism, neoliberalism, and sex work, polyamory is a favorite buzzword, punching bag, and scapegoat of the terminally online.*
In a strictly online context, “polyamory” doesn’t mean the same thing as it might in a real world conversation.
By “polyamory,” people are usually referring to Polyamory™, that is, the subculture of polyamory. They’re no…