A lot of you already know this about me, but I was married once before.
It’s my favorite punchline about myself: I met my ex-husband online. Not a dating app, really online. This was a time when there was a better chance that a straight person would know what Grindr was than Tinder.
The very first time I saw my ex-husband, it was 6:00 AM where he was.
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