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Is It the Wrong Time or Just the Wrong Person?

Advice column #22

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Katherine Dee
Oct 23, 2020
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Today, we talk about what to do when you’re dating someone who’s perfect… except you’d much rather be single.

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I've been seeing a guy who is fantastic, he's basically everything I'm looking for in a partner. But I don't feel ready to be in a serious relationship right now, I like being single. Maybe that's contradictory, idk. I'm worried if I break it off, am I self-sabotaging? I've done this before (broken it off with totally normal, nice guys because I 'wasn't in the mood to date') and regretted it.

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